A life well-lived. A death well met.
- Oribel Joy
- Jul 8, 2023
- 3 min read
Updated: Aug 25, 2023
I feel that what I’m about to share with you will help shed some light on what most humans face at the time of their natural death.
In my work with clients on their past lives, I always asked them at the end of each lifetime journey, " What are your thoughts, as you take your last breath?"
The responses I receive fall broadly under these two categories:
If it was a life well-lived, they would say something like this, “I lived an amazing life. I did everything I was meant to do. I raised a family. I overcome many challenges and they were all worth it. I have no regrets. I am so happy to see my family surrounding me.” And they feel peace in mind and heart.
If it was a life filled with regrets, they would share how they feel and say something like this, “I wish I had been kinder to so-and-so”, “I didn’t tell her how much I loved her. If only she knew. It’s too late now.”, “I wish I had spent more time with my children…”. They sounded disappointed with the way they managed their life and how they are filled with regrets.
A life well lived allows the human to embrace death far more easier than one who is filled with regrets. Knowing what you’re meant to do, and doing them while you’re still alive is the key to being ready to accept death.
So here are my suggestions:
At the end of each day, do a review of your entire day. Forgive yourself and others to clear your daily karma.
What is it that is important to you that you want to do but never got around to doing?
Who is it that you wish you could be kinder to and do that the following day. Write these things down.
And if it's not possible to meet the person face-to-face, imagine that person in front of you and speak your heart to that person.
Let the energies carry your message to that person, and you will have a better sleep knowing that you’ve expressed what’s in your heart.
You will go to sleep with no regrets and a tomorrow already planned.
It's not about living a perfect life. It's about learning to live lovingly, courageously and consciously each day. And when you share your wisdom and joy by the way you live, you will come to understand that this is your contribution to the planet. A life well lived has no regrets, and you're no longer fearful of death, as you have done what you came here to do.
After we transition and leave our physical body behind to return Home, we will meet other souls with whom we shared experiences while in physical form. We discuss what happened and how our contracts played out. Since there is no polarity on the other side, all life experiences - even pain - are remembered as joyous.
During our experience of meeting them, we are greeted with two questions:
Did you dance in your passion?
Did you play in your joy?
Our Soul essence is passion and joy, regardless of the life lessons that we’ve set up for ourselves.
I hope this has been helpful. And I encourage you to take a look at your life. Do a life review, if you will. And decide how you want to live your life from here on.
In closing, here is a reminder:
Don't cry because it's over.
Smile because it happened.
I feel very blessed to be able to assist many through the years with their Past-Life experiences. A life well lived is something I feel we all can achieve. The first step is to make a choice on how you want to live your life. Then make a plan on how you want to achieve it.
Our Akashic Records point us in the direction of fulfilling our destiny, learning our lessons, discovering our gifts and abilities, clearing our limited beliefs and blockages. Our soul always leads us on a path to self-awareness and self-mastery.
The greatest gift we can give to ourselves is to be more aware and conscious of our thoughts, feelings, speech and actions. They have impact on our lives and the planet.
Oribel
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